Let’s go waaaaaaaaay back. Back to one of my very first boy crushes. I was 10 in 1989 and I loved watching music videos. I was also in my one phase of my entire life when I actually listened to current pop music. (I have listened to mainly 50’s and 60’s stuff before and since) I loved Paula Abdul, and I loved watching her music videos. The David Fincher directed Forever Your Girl video was one of my favorites – because there was a little boy in it playing a sad business man who had the most spectacular eyes and was the most beautiful little boy I had ever seen in my life. His name was Elijah Wood.
MTV and VH1 only had a handful of videos in rotation at one time in those days, so I would usually spend my afternoons after school waiting during an entire rotation to see the video twice, if possible. I eagerly watched everything I could get my hands on that he was in. I would watch whole films just to get a glimpse. Avalon, Paradise, Radio Flyer, Forever Young, The Good Son – these were all consumed voraciously. And THEN The Adventures of Huck Finn came out and I was hooked. I saw it several times in the theater. Being obsessed with this film lead to my Mark Twain obsession, and I read all of the Tom Sawyer/Huck Finn I could get my hands on (including the super obscure Tom Sawyer Abroad and Tom Sawyer, Detective.) I told you, somehow, my boy obsessions almost always seemed to lead to literature in some way. It also started my movie poster collection. I asked the local movie theater near my house in Las Vegas what they were going to do with the Huck Finn poster after the movie stopped playing there – throw it out, they said. I said I wanted it and from then on they would give/sell me any movie posters I wanted. I had the Huck Finn poster up in my room for years.
I stayed loyal during the teenage “lean years” of The Ice Storm and The Faculty. I loved watching him grow up. (I’m two years old than he). And then, of course, came Lord of the Rings. I couldn’t have been happier when I heard Elijah had been chosen to play Frodo – and that Peter Jackson was directing!! One of my favorite directors AND one of my favorite actors?! I was doomed to be obsessed. I attended every midnight screening of the films, and have done middle earth madness too (watching all three directors cuts back to back – a 12 hour endeavor). I was elated that Elijah was finally getting the top billing and acting kudos he deserved. He seemed to take in all in stride, and I loved that even more.
Since Lord of the Rings, he has made so many interesting and cool choices with his career – everything from Sin City to Everything is Illuminated to Maniac and Wilfred. And, I learned, he has started own production company as well.
I met Elijah this past December at Butt-Numb-A-Thon at the Alamo Drafthouse in Austin, Texas. I knew he would be there and I was asbolsutely ecstatic – and terrified. He follows me on twitter, so I knew he at least knew who I was, but when you dream about meeting someone for 25 years, theres a little bit of pressure there. Mingling in the theater before the first film, I told my friend Moises how excited/nervous I was to meet Elijah. He laughed and said he would introduce us, they were friendly. I said okay, but urged him to wait until a couple of movies had played and I had calmed down a bit. He said he would. Just then my order of nachos arrived and I sat down happily to munch. Suddenly, there was a tap on my shoulder. You see where this is headed. I turned around with a giant mouthful of nachos and found myself gazing into those giant blue eyes I knew so well. I made a small yelping sound, turned bright red and clumsily stood up. I proceeded to babble in an octave two higher than my own about how big of a fan I was and how excited I was to meet him. It was pretty embarassing. He took it very well and was very sweet and gave me a big hug and said he was looking forward to Out of Print. It was pretty much everything I dreamed it would be.
Then, about two weeks ago, Elijah messaged me and asked if he could do a private screening at the New Beverly. I assured him I would do everything in my power to make that happen. And so, this past weekend, we had a small cast & crew screening of a great indie film that he did called Grand Piano – and I brought something with me to show him. In 1990, when I was at the height of my obsession with him, I had written him a letter. A typical fan letter to be sure, praising his acting abilities and his good looks. And he sent me back a signed headshot. Which I have kept all of these years. I told him about this, and showed him the picture. And he laughed. He thought it was hilarious. I showed the director of Grand Piano, Eugenio Mira, the picture and told him that I had been in love with him since I was 10. Eugenio said, “I’m a straight man, but I’m in love with him too.” At which point Elijah came into the room and Eugenio and I both giggled nervously and assured him we were most certainly not just talking about how in love with him we are. Elijah handled my nervous adoration in a great way (i’m sure he’s used to it) and was incredibly sweet and friendly. We talked about horror movies, and I got three incredible hugs.
I cannot tell you what a relief it is to me that he is a genuinely nice person. One of the downfalls of girlhood crushes is being in love with a fantasy – not the person themselves. And meeting this person who has been built up so much in your mind can be scary – what if they crush everything I have thought about them my whole life? Rest assurred, he is nice, smart and funny. And incredibly fucking good looking.
So this might be super awkward if he ends up reading this (Hi, Elijah!) since I would genuinely like for him to program at the New Beverly and work with him in the future, but I couldn’t write about my girlhood crushes and not write about the one I have had the longest. I have been in love with this man for most of my life, and I imagine I will continue to be for the rest of it. I have confidence that he will continue to make great choices in his career, and I look forward to seeing him continue to grow up.
Mr. Wood, I salute you.
9 responses to “Girlhood Crush – Elijah Wood”
Tiiu
June 13th, 2013 at 16:27
I absolutely love it!!! And the best part is, it reads like Beat Girl Fan Fic. But in real life. ❤
UT
June 14th, 2013 at 03:25
Not for nothing, but I’m kinda worried for your boyfriend.
Very fun to read though
Matthew
June 14th, 2013 at 06:55
Your reaction to Elijah in the theater reminded me of my embarrassing fan moment when Alyson Hannigan came into my Starbucks and up to MY register. I couldn’t stop shaking and smiling, I was worried I was going to burn myself trying to make and serve her coffee.
Pretty sure she could tell I was a fan.
Virginia
June 14th, 2013 at 11:49
your story was just beautiful! .. and you seem like a very nice person!, and just let me tell “lucky you”! for having had the chance to meet our favorite actor .. 😉 I hope you will continue to fulfill all the dreams of your life!
Jo Ann
June 14th, 2013 at 19:28
This is a lovely story and so well written. I’m an Elijah fan, too, (not for as long as you though) and have been since I saw The Good Son on TV many years ago. I’ve had three opportunities to meet him and I don’t know of any celebrity who is more down to earth and nicer to fans.
Lij Lij Briggy
June 14th, 2013 at 20:50
What a sweet tribute and a wonderful story. Thank you so much for sharing what we all knew. He’s a down to earth kind of a guy.
Marea
August 16th, 2013 at 17:25
Great encounter report ! I too can relate to the babbling and the speaking to the object of your admiration breathlessly and at abnormal vocal pitch I was lucky enough to meet Elijah on three separate occasions, none of them “typical”. I’ve stood in line to see him at an Oscar party, I’ve interviewed him once and I petted a cat with him (!) at a NYC bar after party. I’ve never asked for or gotten his autograph and there is no picture of him standing next to me. (There’s IS one that is a close up shot of his face…. and the end of my nose. Yup. I guess I should just turn in my fan girl certification card here and now!) My reports on these were posted previously (here and elsewhere on the internet) and I’m pretty sure if I re-read them today I’ve be a little embarrassed. But I’d still stand by them. And I am left with memories of hanging out – however briefly – with a really, REALLY great guy…. and I’d rather have those than anything. His good looks and talent are only where his positive qualities begin. I can’t imagine being anything but a fan of his for life either.
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Jawaher Zahran
September 22nd, 2013 at 16:27
This is one of the best blog posts I’ve read. I really enjoyed reading this. I’m a HUGE Elijah fan too and can’t imagine myself being a fan of someone other than him. Thank you for reassuring to me that he is a nice and down-to-earth guy. I wish I will have the chance to meet him in the future and perhaps, write about it 😉 I have a blog as well.